When I look outside my window I see a beautiful garden. It’s not a very big garden; it’s small but has a lot of plants and flowers. I see pink bud roses, white little flower with five petals, tiny blue flower-which is a creeper, red hibiscus …all these colors make them look lovely with a touch of green from all the other plants. They are always accompanied by pretty dancing butterflies and bubbly buzzing honey bees. This drags my attention everyday, I look and I smile.
It was the month of May. One evening, I was sitting in the garden and looking at all the pretty flowers, lost into thoughts….Kids played outside, the gardener was plucking the weeds, elderly people chattered, mom was in the kitchen-chopping vegetables for dinner and others involved in their on normal daily activities. But then something happened and it was no longer just another day!
All this while I was looking at the May Flower, it was still a bud, yet to bloom…The gardener who was working, pulling the weeds, had a small quarrel with our neighbor. Now I really don’t remember what the matter was, but he was angry and mad. In this anger he still continued to work, but he just pulled out the May Flower bud! It left me stunned, and even before I could protest or stop him, the flower bud was gone! I had waited all month just to look at the May Flower, as it blooms only in the month of May! I was really upset…and then it occurred to me, aren’t we humans like the May Flower too?
God gifted every individual with a talent. Some discover this talent when they are very young but most of us take a lifetime. Also there people who are in search of their talents, some of them try to paint…but do not get the best out of it, some of us give a shot at photography…but not everyone can capture best of the shots, some try to get into the world of music…but they are not very successful! And when they don’t really succeed in what they dedicated their time in…most of us, including me criticize them. Not realizing that it could burry all their talents in a coffin. It leaves one shattered and scared, it lowers their confidence …so low that they would never want to try anything again! We pluck their talents and never let them bloom. Wouldn’t the world look beautiful with fully bloomed flowers?
Well, then why do we criticize them? The “Words” spoken by us are so strong that it can make or break a person! “Words kill more than swords, so use words carefully”. Isn’t that true? Have you ever seen a crawling baby get up and run to its mother in just one day!? No.Parents encourage the baby to take one step everyday and don’t just abandon them because their babies take too long to walk and run…Parents knowing that they will see their child run walk and jump with joy someday.
All one needs is a little encouragement and soothing words. So let’s try and motivate each other and encourage ourselves, let’s not let anyone crush our talents-like how the gardener crushed the May Flower bud.
Its true to the very last word. There are people with talents. But there are also people like the weed the gardener removed, people like me. Well, thats another matter entirely.
ReplyDeleteThe thing is, you said that words can both make and break a person, true, but sometimes, these same harsh words also motivate. If you are willing to take up the challenge, you will bloom. So none can blame critics alone, may be thats where their talent lies, they can criticize, but, it solely upon the person who is being criticized, if that person wants to bloom (s)he will surely do so.
Nice thoughts, keep it up :)
hmmm...right Baban :) I was looking at just once side of it...yup at times criticisms are taken as challenges by many...it's true in my case too...why didn't I think of this? :|
ReplyDeleteOMG!! EXCELLENTLY WRITTEN MY LOVE !! so proud of you. it seems as if you have been writin for ages..No wonder ur style of writing has led to a good fan following;)and that too in just one day!!
ReplyDeleteHad I had a newspaper I would have published this one with no second looks!! its warm, fresh, beautifully written, refreshes you like morning dew drops!!
take my word..Keep writin and one day who knows we'll take out a book together??;P
love Aakriti
:D Thank You soooo much Aakriti :) <3
ReplyDeleteeh?newspaper? na na :P there are better articles out there than this one :)
and I'll take your advice and write one everyday...thanks again!
Sheetal...I told u to try newspaper... :P
ReplyDeleteWonderfully written...If I didnt knew it was written by you, I would have thought its by some author ..really...
just a thing came to my mind though....may b at times its good to criticize someone...not for motivation but in case when that person is a dabbler or dilettante if u may say..not necessarily all the people who try something have talent to do it right...so its right to let them know about it and make them concentrate on their real talent than superficial one...
But I read this n I felt that this was another step in your writing....Its getting better n better... :)...Waiting for more... :)
:D Thanks Ashu!! let these articles stay on the blog for a while :)
ReplyDeletemay be you are right...like I said earlier,I kept looking only at one side of it!next time I will consider all facts and possibilities :)
hmm.. and I hope I keep up to your expectations :P and hope I do a better job next time!
Hi,
ReplyDeleteDeep thoughts. I like thinkers.
Its these minor details that matter in life. What everyone else noticed was the fight. And what you noticed was the flower being plucked. And that got you into thinking.
I like your work. Keep writing.
Cheers \m/
Freeek
PS: www.freeekblogs.blogspot.com
Hey Shirish!!
ReplyDeleteThank you :D
Cheers :P \m/
Encouragement and motivation is one thing. Praising for this cause, another.
ReplyDeleteIf you go on praising someone even if they're bad at it, they will be forced to believe that they're good. They develop negative self-confidence. That can be more harmful than not knowing where your actual talent lies.
hmmm...true sis!Even if not praise them,at least tell them that their talent does not lie in that particular thing and encourage them to try something else...but not discourage them!
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